A few things always change when you have guests at home so certainly if my in-laws are visiting, we will have to made a few adjustments afterall if my parents were visiting I would do the same. If I cannot afford to take a few day off, I do have a flexible job so I would probably adjust my hours in the morning so I can make them breakfast before I leave and show them how to operate the microwave for the lunch which will already be in the fridge for them. If the visit was a planned visit, we would not have taken on any commitment that would interfere with spending a little time with our parents but those that cannot be avoided, we will just make sure they have something to eat and go take care of our business. I will give them a spare key so they can go out themselves (depending if we live in a city like NY which is easy to navigate) if they don't want to be couped up in the house waiting for us. As per sleeping arrangements, if we have only one bedroom, I would give them our bedroom out of respect and sleep on the pull out and of course, no hanky-panky in the living room in case mama in-law needs a glass of water in the middle of the night . However, if we have extra rooms, they will get their own and our intimacy will continue as before just without any extreme vocal appreciation . It is all a matter of how much of your routine you are willing to adjust to accomodate them and whether you have an inflexible job, children etc. You just hope that they will respect themselves too and not think that we will be giving up everything to cater to them hand and foot. This no be Naija, we don't have house help to take care of those little details, abeg.