Your Inlaws are visiting....

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Sifu

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..wait O!!:gnash...na who chop finish wey the husband dey wash dishes?:gnash was he doing his own dishes abi all of dem chop finish then na the husband come dey wash dishes?:gnash I wait for ya answer before I get even more pissed :gnash
See oh. The whole house of course. Will he pick out the kids dishes and wait for me to come home. Really? So you will actually walk up to the sink and wash yours and keep moving LMAO. Geez. Thank God for dishwashers sha. PaJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJ. I almost used your real name there.
 

Supermom

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See oh. The whole house of course. Will he pick out the kids dishes and wait for me to come home. Really? So you will actually walk up to the sink and wash yours and keep moving LMAO. Geez. Thank God for dishwashers sha. PaJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJ. I almost used your real name there.

Errrmmm how old are the kids pls.....that dad is doing the dishes for them...
 

Thickmadam

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i'm eagerly awaiting his response.
See oh. The whole house of course. Will he pick out the kids dishes and wait for me to come home. Really? So you will actually walk up to the sink and wash yours and keep moving LMAO. Geez. Thank God for dishwashers sha. PaJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJ. I almost used your real name there.
 

paj

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See oh. The whole house of course. Will he pick out the kids dishes and wait for me to come home. Really? So you will actually walk up to the sink and wash yours and keep moving LMAO. Geez. Thank God for dishwashers sha. PaJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJ. I almost used your real name there.
..oh..wait..so..the wifey wasn't home to chop d chopulate wiff dem?:gnash ...na dat one U for talk na...smokin: I'm all for women's lib and sharing the duties but just to paint the picture here..una chop finish,and after dat the woman gets up,goes to crash into the couch,grabs the remote and started surfing the channels while the husband scrapes the plates and washes the dishes?:gnash.....even the hardcore-est of una babes for here no get liver to do dat wan..especially wiff granny watching...smokin:
 

Sifu

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..oh..wait..so..the wifey wasn't home to chop d chopulate wiff dem?:gnash ...na dat one U for talk na...smokin: I'm all for women's lib and sharing the duties but just to paint the picture here..una chop finish,and after dat the woman gets up,goes to crash into the couch,grabs the remote and started surfing the channels while the husband scrapes the plates and washes the dishes?:gnash.....even the hardcore-est of una babes for here no get liver to do dat wan..especially wiff granny watching...smokin:
It's been done. Not a big deal. Granny's place is to observe how the home is run and fit in. Thank you very much. :bouncy
 

Sifu

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PaJ but what does it matter really if she also ate. Does she count the amount of dollars she puts in the account. Which dollar is his and which one is hers. Bush man
 

barbarellanoir

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#53
lmaoooo
that's what my friend said too. that her mother in law was shocked that her son, her FIRST SON, no less, was washing dishes. i asked her how she handled it and she said she didn't.
she just told her husband to let his mum know that this is america and there are no househelps, and that they have set up their household in a way that works for both of them. she said she had to lock herself in the bathroom to laugh at the speed with which the woman rushed to take the dishes away from her son.



Sif-sif is right. for a lot of nigerians it's a big no-no for a woman to call her husband by his name. but a lot of the younger nigerian couples are not subscribing to that. my aunt calls her husband "chief", another calls hers "nnam uku" ...loosely translated it's means big father, or big man, or master.
i absolutely refuse, REFUSE to call my husband anything like that. na crase?
if your name or honey, darling, sweetie doesn't work, then yawa don gas.

I never knew this existed. At least not in my world. All the nigerian aunts I have called their husbands by their names.....Seriously...They are all over 50 too. I guess I lived in my own world.
 

NTB

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..oh..wait..so..the wifey wasn't home to chop d chopulate wiff dem?:gnash ...na dat one U for talk na...smokin: I'm all for women's lib and sharing the duties but just to paint the picture here..una chop finish,and after dat the woman gets up,goes to crash into the couch,grabs the remote and started surfing the channels while the husband scrapes the plates and washes the dishes?:gnash.....even the hardcore-est of una babes for here no get liver to do dat wan..especially wiff granny watching...smokin:
PaJ, stop it oh :laugher:
 

Thickmadam

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#55
I never knew this existed. At least not in my world. All the nigerian aunts I have called their husbands by their names.....Seriously...They are all over 50 too. I guess I lived in my own world.
yep it exists. I have never asked why that particular aunt calls him chief. my mum calls my dad by his name but 80% of the time she calls him by his nickname.
 

NTB

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#56
yep it exists. I have never asked why that particular aunt calls him chief. my mum calls my dad by his name but 80% of the time she calls him by his nickname.
My Mom de call my Dad, daddy :teu26: and it irks me like crazy. Dad calls Mom by her name :laugh: I have had to call your bros to order :laugher: on that mummy nonsense. My name will suffice.
 

paj

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.....parents called each by my eldest brother's name..."Mama Seyi",and "Papa Seyi"..yeah..I need to ask Momsie what was up wiff dat??:gnash I was the youngest and everyone said I was the cutest ..so why him?.why not ME?:gnash
 

paj

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PaJ but what does it matter really if she also ate. Does she count the amount of dollars she puts in the account. Which dollar is his and which one is hers. Bush man
...abeg..tell me which culture..world wide..have U ever seen where the husband clears the table while the wife walks away and goes to chill out on the couch after they just finished treating guests to a meal? The most I've seen is the husband pitching in a little to help clear it up but it'st he wife that takes the initiative...perhaps order the kids to do it if they're grown enough...and trust me it's not a chauvinistic view..because it's possible that they probably do things a little differently (with no kids) while no one else is there...so ..think about what you're saying..bush woman ::D
 

Thickmadam

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#60
pa j, what if she's a nursing mother? and after they eat the baby is crying to be fed?
would it make his penis fall off if the husband saw his wife rushing to nurse the baby right after they eat, and he decides to take the dishes to the sink and then wash them?


...abeg..tell me which culture..world wide..have U ever seen where the husband clears the table while the wife walks away and goes to chill out on the couch after they just finished treating guests to a meal? The most I've seen is the husband pitching in a little to help clear it up but it'st he wife that takes the initiative...perhaps order the kids to do it if they're grown enough...and trust me it's not a chauvinistic view..because it's possible that they probably do things a little differently (with no kids) while no one else is there...so ..think about what you're saying..bush woman ::D
 
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