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your man cheats and flaunt it in your face, what next?

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Omoye

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this story is about my friend, she was devoted to her boyfriend in every way, nice faithful, loyal and giving. went outfor about 3years but moved to another states. they kept in touch, and she made it her duty to visit and call often. they were going to get married, which they did,but he cheated. he did admit but he kept tormeting her by telling her about the other girl. he would complain that during the break caused by distance, he knid of fell in love with the girl, complained on a dailybasis on how perfect this other girl is and my friend was not. they have being married for 3 years now, and she is very unhappy, what should she do.she is scared to leave him because she gave up everything to be with him, now her family and friends are against her, and she short of cash due to his demands.
 
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Lush

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i hate to be harsh but she's an idiot for marrying him knowing fully well that he was inlove with someone else. what did she expect that he willfall out of love. she made her bed and she must lie in it.
 
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Lush

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Ah there has got to be more than that to this story!

Anyways, patience, patience, patience....

how can there be more to the story. he cheated, she knew, she accepted, she married him. please gimme a break.
 

blackpearl

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this story is about my friend, she was devoted to her boyfriend in every way, nice faithful, loyal and giving. went outfor about 3years but moved to another states. they kept in touch, and she made it her duty to visit and call often. they were going to get married, which they did,but he cheated. he did admit but he kept tormeting her by telling her about the other girl. he would complain that during the break caused by distance, he knid of fell in love with the girl, complained on a dailybasis on how perfect this other girl is and my friend was not. they have being married for 3 years now, and she is very unhappy, what should she do.she is scared to leave him because she gave up everything to be with him, now her family and friends are against her, and she short of cash due to his demands.
His Demands ke? You kidding me? Anyhow sha, why should she marry him when she knew about him cheating AND did he started to compare the both of them before the marriage too? Well there are a lot of loop holes! Wish her good luck tho.
 

goseiant

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this story is about my friend, she was devoted to her boyfriend in every way, nice faithful, loyal and giving. went outfor about 3years but moved to another states. they kept in touch, and she made it her duty to visit and call often. they were going to get married, which they did,but he cheated. he did admit but he kept tormeting her by telling her about the other girl. he would complain that during the break caused by distance, he knid of fell in love with the girl, complained on a dailybasis on how perfect this other girl is and my friend was not. they have being married for 3 years now, and she is very unhappy, what should she do.she is scared to leave him because she gave up everything to be with him, now her family and friends are against her, and she short of cash due to his demands.
Love sometimes can be cruel, and I don't also condone divorce.
Tell your friend to give him the beatings of his life, and who knows,
maybe that might knock some sense into his head. I wish her all the best.
 

Omoye

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i wanted to clear the few questions that some of you had, they were already married before he told her about the affair he had why they were seperated.
 

may

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the sooner she kicks him out and get what is left of her life the better for her.
He is not worth the heartache.
 

olofofogal

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the sooner she kicks him out and get what is left of her life the better for her.
He is not worth the heartache.


its easier said when u r not the one in thatmarriage or relationship.walking away is not easy..this story sounds kinda one way,anyway she shud look up to GOD no amount of advice will help her!
 
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its easier said when u r not the one in thatmarriage or relationship.walking away is not easy..this story sounds kinda one way,anyway she shud look up to GOD no amount of advice will help her!
Abi o. Tell am make him hear. Everybody go dey say divorce, but if na dem, they go fit o.
 

chi

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... anyway what i will do I will put love aside and be very firm with the guy.. I will definitely make it known to him i don't like the comparison and if he continues i will find a way of getting back at him... though this sounds Malicious .... and as for his demand i assume it's cash ... he wouldn't see that pleasant side of me .. u don't have to be a fool for love especially when it isn't reciprocated
 
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its easier said when u r not the one in thatmarriage or relationship.walking away is not easy..this story sounds kinda one way,anyway she shud look up to GOD no amount of advice will help her!
true dat mami...thats it...even in relationships not even marraige it aint easy to get out
 
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nimayamo

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Well a mistake has already been made. She should have kicked his broke *** BEFORE they got married. What to do now? Just pray and be patient. The bible says the heart of the king is in the hand of the Lord. Meaning?? Dat man's heart can still change if she does the right thing. Right now, cussing and bitching will not solve anything and if she dares leave, someone else would come shine for him beta that she did.

1. Find out what makes that girl tick so fast in her hubby's head. Make some corrections. Stop saying I HAVE TRIED MY BEST cos your best aint good enuf. if it were, the man for don change tey tey.
2. Dont go around fighting bo. It doesnt solve anything. Just ignore his behaviour and you behave like you just met him for the first time and you are madly in love with him. BUT not dat you will turn yourself into a foot mat cos your man dey mess up.
3. Clean up reall good. Dress to kill. The make up; everything. He will think you are seeing someone else and would think twice.

Well dis is the best i can say. I learnt it from a couple of my friends experiences. and it sort of works out for them.

If all this does not work out, simply WALK OUT.

Thank you.
 
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