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Your partner cheats a day before the Wedding

Your partner cheats a day before the Wedding. Would you

  • Postpone the wedding?

    Votes: 7 11.5%
  • Dump him?

    Votes: 19 31.1%
  • Waste him?

    Votes: 2 3.3%
  • Forgive him?

    Votes: 19 31.1%
  • Not sure what...?

    Votes: 14 23.0%

  • Total voters
    61
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Sola

Administrator
Staff member
#1
You catch him/her red-handed.
You have spent 1000s of Dollars on the impending wedding.
Is the wedding still going to happen?
 
#2
Sola said:
You catch him/her red-handed.
You have spent 1000s of Dollars on the impending wedding.
Is the wedding still going to happen?


It doesn't matter how much I've spent but if my partner cheats on me before my wedding, I'll definitely dump her. There are some things that are more important than money and believe me when I say that loyalty and trust are some of them. The fact that she cheated on me just before our wedding shows that she can not be trusted. I can't spend the rest of my life with someone I don't trust. :cool-smil
 

queen47

Active Member
#4
Sola said:
You catch him/her red-handed.
You have spent 1000s of Dollars on the impending wedding.
Is the wedding still going to happen?


mmhhh..... it's over ooo....fullstop.
The bedrock of every marriage is trust and once it is betrayed.....there's bound to be problem even if I decide to go on with that marriage, it'll definitely crumble one day cos the foundation is already shaking and when the foundation is faulty.......... how will the builing stand?
 

bollyd

moda b4 moda!
#6
come on now, just few hrs away from the D-day, I will go ahead with the wedding o. I know wat he did is not rite, but i can back out now, and besides if i did the same thing i would be expecting to be forgiven. if God can forgive who am I not to forgive fellow human being. But i know it's gon take time for me to forget about it.
 

Aust_nne

Well-Known Member
#7
He is gone! Thank God its even before the wedding..am not going though any divorce process. Cheating before or after the wedding means he is gone..so it doesnt marra when.
 

paj

Well-Known Member
#8
bollyd said:
come on now, just few hrs away from the D-day, I will go ahead with the wedding o. I know wat he did is not rite, but i can back out now, and besides if i did the same thing i would be expecting to be forgiven. if God can forgive who am I not to forgive fellow human being. But i know it's gon take time for me to forget about it.
..U're joking..right? :shock
Pa
 

Okestra007

Mr. Lover Man
#9
Sola said:
You catch him/her red-handed.
You have spent 1000s of Dollars on the impending wedding.
Is the wedding still going to happen?
That's a no go for me, or I can give people the part 2 of "Clemson Wedding."
 

hafseedee

Well-Known Member
#10
i'll dump him because he will do it again. see if it wasnt the day before the wedding i could give him another chance but if he cheated and the next day is our wedding that means i mean nothing to him and he doesnt value our relationship why should u get in a life time commitment with a person who is a cheat. he'll be gone. i mean i'll miss him but he aint worth it
 

may

Charma............
#13
I'll forgive him ohhhh..... all the people saying they would dump him are you very sure you will do that when the time comes.......
Its really easy for you guys to say cos you havent found yourselfs in that condition.
Just think of all the family disgrace......only the person wearing a shoe knows where it hurts.
 
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4Satat

Guest
#17
We WILL GET THE DICORCE PAPERS BEFORE THE WEDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shock


OR just for fun, I'll marry him and put in divorce papers the next business day! :586: he wouldnt know what hit him!! Abi dis one mean? But him to cheat nko!!!!!????
 

paj

Well-Known Member
#18
4Satat said:
We WILL GET THE DICORCE PAPERS BEFORE THE WEDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shock


OR just for fun, I'll marry him and put in divorce papers the next business day! :586: he wouldnt know what hit him!! Abi dis one mean? But him to cheat nko!!!!!????
..it wont count..it was not done during the marriage.. smokin: pre-wedding kpanshing is not considered marital infidelity... smokin:
Pa
 
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