Your partner cheats a day before the Wedding

Your partner cheats a day before the Wedding. Would you

  • Postpone the wedding?

    Votes: 7 11.5%
  • Dump him?

    Votes: 19 31.1%
  • Waste him?

    Votes: 2 3.3%
  • Forgive him?

    Votes: 19 31.1%
  • Not sure what...?

    Votes: 14 23.0%

  • Total voters
    61
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bollyd

moda b4 moda!
#21
paj said:
..what if the girl he cheated with na prostitute that may likely be HIV positive?
Pa

then he gat to take HIV test and if the test is negative we'll stay together but if the is test positive then it will be bye bye.
 
#24
bollyd said:
then he gat to take HIV test and if the test is negative we'll stay together but if the is test positive then it will be bye bye.



Interesting, but are you gonna cancel the wedding until the result is out? :cool-smil
 
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samira

Guest
#30
That is exactly the reason why I love expensive wedding rings...lol
I will dump him so fast and make good use of the wedding ring by selling it or taking it back. that way, I can at least make up for some of the money that I lost.
 

barbiejay731

Well-Known Member
#34
Most things happen and we really don't know why or how it happened.what if it was forcefully done?Love is not defined by the highs and lows of life but its dependent on commitment of will.Did u ever put all the " what if " into consideration b4 preparation?Marriage is one area where fantasy can overtake reason and common sense,its only when u are going into it with wrong reasons,that is when u can actually cheat without remorse. Anyway,Find out why it happened and see if its a situation that can be put in place.Forgiveness is the bed rock of every relationship.and a healthy relationship can work through problems by compromise and negotiation.
 

brenda17

Weezy F baby
#35
Gen Sani Abacha said:
:shock
I wouldna want my lovely lil sis in prison for some punk. Just leave da mutha and his ho, and go hook up with his best friend! :love004: :teu26:



Ah! very good idea General.if the dawg messes up,then i'mma take his friend. :fing02:: :teu26:


**much love**
 

kolinzo

Well-Known Member
#36
Oluwa gbami o! Wasn't this derived from the movie Ale Ariwo? It's really heard to decide what's gonna happen. The wedding would not take place the next day for sure, not because of what she did but because of the trauma i'd be going through seeing that with my own eyes. It takes the most strogest and calmest person alive to survive that kinda situation! No one knows what he/she would do right on the spot.
 

may

Charma............
#37
barbiejay731 said:
Most things happen and we really don't know why or how it happened.what if it was forcefully done?Love is not defined by the highs and lows of life but its dependent on commitment of will.Did u ever put all the " what if " into consideration b4 preparation?Marriage is one area where fantasy can overtake reason and common sense,its only when u are going into it with wrong reasons,that is when u can actually cheat without remorse. Anyway,Find out why it happened and see if its a situation that can be put in place.Forgiveness is the bed rock of every relationship.and a healthy relationship can work through problems by compromise and negotiation.
Well said :fing02:
 
#39
well i think i will go ahead with the marriage it would take some time to adjust but time heals.it is even better to know that he cheated than for u to find out later from a third party.he will even feel ur pain that after all that this woman still married me the guilt is good enough to kill him.besides they have already baked the cake and all the presents and the dress mennn forget that **** it happens
 

hazozo

Active Member
#40
where i come from the whole family to those you dont know exists are actualy the ones doing the wedding and not me.so for theis sake and for my mums too,i will let the wedding go on as planned,cos i know many poeple have invested so much of their time to see that the wedding is a success. then i will also consider my friends and well wishers who must have found time out of theri busy schedulle to attend the wedding, and also the money they would spend on gifts too. but after the wedding i will make her realy sorry for what she has done.first i will take a long honeymoon with an ex girll friend , or better still ,i will look for one of her own friend to go with me. and when i get back, we can now talk about the future.
 
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