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Your partner cheats a day before the Wedding

Your partner cheats a day before the Wedding. Would you

  • Postpone the wedding?

    Votes: 7 11.5%
  • Dump him?

    Votes: 19 31.1%
  • Waste him?

    Votes: 2 3.3%
  • Forgive him?

    Votes: 19 31.1%
  • Not sure what...?

    Votes: 14 23.0%

  • Total voters
    61
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Sifu

Well-Known Member
#41
AfricanQueen said:
well i think i will go ahead with the marriage it would take some time to adjust but time heals.it is even better to know that he cheated than for u to find out later from a third party.he will even feel ur pain that after all that this woman still married me the guilt is good enough to kill him.besides they have already baked the cake and all the presents and the dress mennn forget that **** it happens

Abeg wake up. When he was doing somebody else the day before your wedding, you honestly believe that all of a sudden this person will develop a conscience. Na wa sha.
 

Sifu

Well-Known Member
#42
hazozo said:
where i come from the whole family to those you dont know exists are actualy the ones doing the wedding and not me.so for theis sake and for my mums too,i will let the wedding go on as planned,cos i know many poeple have invested so much of their time to see that the wedding is a success. then i will also consider my friends and well wishers who must have found time out of theri busy schedulle to attend the wedding, and also the money they would spend on gifts too. but after the wedding i will make her realy sorry for what she has done.first i will take a long honeymoon with an ex girll friend , or better still ,i will look for one of her own friend to go with me. and when i get back, we can now talk about the future.

Will your mums (as you put it) live with you in that house? Will she put up with his ******** day in day out. You guys need to wake up before you get yourself in alot of trouble. Geez.
 

hazozo

Active Member
#43
Sifu said:
Will your mums (as you put it) live with you in that house? Will she put up with his ******** day in day out. You guys need to wake up before you get yourself in alot of trouble. Geez.
good advice, but one thing i know is that marriage is a hearth thing.we beign joined together in front of all dont mean much. its wht you realy feel for each other that count.like i said i will still reconsider her only after ive had my own revenge. then we can now decide to split o reunite depending on how we both feel
 

robeta_021

Well-Known Member
#46
Sola said:
You catch him/her red-handed.
You have spent 1000s of Dollars on the impending wedding.
Is the wedding still going to happen?
Go on with the wedding and sign into a relationship filled with distrust, or walk away and loose 1000s of dollars? I'll do the latter, I may be able to get refunds on some of the items/services purchased. I'd rather do that than be with a cheater.
 

Yagana

Registered
#49
I will marry him still. The other iskanchiya would be the loser becuse I will be the Mrs while she will still remain a concubine! ha ha ha
I win!
 

barbiejay731

Well-Known Member
#51
gogetter said:
i cant even look at him during the wedding so therefore, it's a wrap!..Goodbye!
The truth is words are easier said than done,this is a day b4 the wedding ooo.the wedding would still go on.if u quit that means u never knew anything 'bout the man u actually wanted to get married to.u just wanted to marry for the fun of it.At least we should know little of what our partner is made up of b4 going into serious union of such.
 

zenke

Well-Known Member
#52
yaro mai amfani

barbiejay731 said:
The truth is words are easier said than done,this is a day b4 the wedding ooo.the wedding would still go on.if u quit that means u never knew anything 'bout the man u actually wanted to get married to.u just wanted to marry for the fun of it.At least we should know little of what our partner is made up of b4 going into serious union of such.
:fing02: :fing02: :fing02:
 

NTB

Well-Known Member
#53
A very good way to start a marriage ehay?

barbiejay731 said:
The truth is words are easier said than done,this is a day b4 the wedding ooo.the wedding would still go on.if u quit that means u never knew anything 'bout the man u actually wanted to get married to.u just wanted to marry for the fun of it.At least we should know little of what our partner is made up of b4 going into serious union of such.
 

barbiejay731

Well-Known Member
#55
NTB said:
A very good way to start a marriage ehay?

There is always no injury that can't heal,its always time.what if u back out of the wedding and he beggs u countinuously don't u think u would succumb to the sweet words he used earlier in getting u to marry him?so why the fuzz,why the dissolving when it can be settled?my question is what if its a day after the wedding?
 

zenke

Well-Known Member
#56
yaro mai amfani

barbiejay731 said:
There is always no injury that can't heal,its always time.what if u back out of the wedding and he beggs u countinuously don't u think u would succumb to the sweet words he used earlier in getting u to marry him?so why the fuzz,why the dissolving when it can be settled?my question is what if its a day after the wedding?
Mrs lecturer na u biko:fing02:
 

barbiejay731

Well-Known Member
#57
goseiant said:
Forgive him and go on with the wedding. :2:

Yes my dear.I don't know the fuzz 'bout this quitting,u know guy could be weak when it comes to this sex of a thing,though its not a yardstick,what if u the lady was raped a day b4 the wedding what would happen?don't u thing the guy would feel it even if it wasn't an intentional mating?
 
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