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Your partner tells you (s)he has AIDs...

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by Sola, Jun 8, 2004.

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  1. wifey

    wifey Member

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    Thi can not first of all happen because before we get started, we go for the HIV /AIDS test and know our individual status. Also i so not think this can ever happen because Psalms 91 tells me that as a child of God no plague shall come near my duelling place and no uch evil shall befall me cause am divinely protested.
    Having so many guys if which are not even your husnand is not the best thing to do all the same.That is not even the best for you My sisters and brothers.
    Thanks
     
  2. Sola

    Sola Administrator
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    What is it about Nigerians? You ask them a real life question, and they get biblical on you, then they compain that Nigerian movies have too much religion in them. Yet in real life, ask someone a question and he throws it to God!
     
  3. gorgeous70

    gorgeous70 Active Member

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    Granted!

    but what does reality tell u? AIDS is real mate!!!

     
  4. solatoks

    solatoks naija rules 4ever

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    God forbid instant reaction 'ile lanu ko gbemi mi' ah this one is oro buruku pelu erin it ain't even funny. Only the person's found themselve in that position can explain. All we can do is speculate.
     
  5. robeta_021

    robeta_021 Well-Known Member

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    lmao :roll :roll :roll
     
  6. adbabie

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    Any answer to this is an easy one - you won't know exactly what to do till this actually happens to you. It is so easy to say..I WILL KILL THE PERSON. I think the best thing to do in this senario is to get tested after you know your patner is infected. After which you should get consult a counselor - maybe phsycological. The AIDS epidemic remains high in South Africa because people remain angry after they learn that they got infected by their partner and this anger is transformed into infecting other innocent people.

    Also, if you are love-making when you are not married - why are you not protecting yourself when there are even strawbery flavored condoms out there these days....use your head folks!!
     
  7. johan

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    well i think if it happens to me i will go get tested too and start treatment and continue having sex with the infected partner
     
  8. olatoludipe

    olatoludipe BOSS LADY

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    Well, stick wif em. But God 4bid.
     
  9. goldmercy

    goldmercy Leader of all GOLDIDGGERS

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    well, i dont know what i will do...I pray i dont fall in that situation.......

    But otherwise...i know i already gat it...therefore..just stick with the patner till death do us part....... :cool-smil
     
  10. mimi victor

    mimi victor Well-Known Member

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    He just got himself a new wife or a life patner because I am not going thru it alone or else I will report him so he wont do it to somebody else
     
  11. bollyd

    bollyd moda b4 moda!

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    first of all i would violent: him then violent-s: myself
     
  12. grafikdon

    grafikdon Well-Known Member

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    Ahem!

    Well, ya know, that will be like signing a permanent marriage contract...chei!
    I will not fold my arm just like that...I will run back to naija and scour the jungles of Nigeria in search of herbs...but she gotta be willing to play the guinea pig...:D
     
  13. 4Satat

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    Kill her?
    1. You should have used comdom!
    2. If you dated her and knew her well, [if she was not a one-night stand] then you would have known or noticed the cocktail drugs she must be taking.
    3. Chances are you were carried away and was thinking through your dick, and she probably said NO, but you went ahead and aroused her so much she got lost in the act.
    4. She is a human being too with feelings. She needed a little 'action'
    5. HOLD UP!!! When was the last time you had an AIDS test!? You dont even know if you already have it! Then, voila! Marry her, you CANNOT over-affect each other! :)

    Please write your will, .........................


    Oops! Sue Me!!!
     
  14. gogetter

    gogetter Liya kebede...gorgeous

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    hmm, me i dey fear ooh. na wich kain tin be dat now. i just dey enter ma prime so i no fit kill myself, but that Ps 91 abi na 92 na lie ooh. you no no the 5th abi na 6th commandment (whicheva e be) say no commit adultery/fornication?
     
  15. Multioption

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    Thou shall not do 'stick it in stick it out' make una be careful.
     
  16. erinma

    erinma Arealbadnewstofakers!

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    I will probably freak out !!! but then there are more worse sickness than HIV... what about the Ebola that kills in a couple of day... if i love him will just have to discuss the situation... (after i wack him first) some times it might not be his fault... :cool:
     
  17. Multioption

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    This question got me thinking.....since the very moment the thread was opened. How would I handle this....?

    First, I can't contract HIV virus through sexual intercourse; that's a fact I'm very sure of. Don't ask don't tell. I won't do 'stick-it-in-stick-it-out' with anybody, not even a thought of using raincoat-condom- could make me fall victim of the booby trap.

    Wait o oooo....what if I meet someone who tickles me below the belt and I decide to get down with her...? That one go hard o! Will give myself tripple protection.

    Ha...the question is about how I'd feel or what I would do....hmmmmm

    I will start fasting and praying. God can heal. Have seen a woman without womb getting pregnant, so HIV virus is nothing.

    "There is hope for a tree, if it be cut down, it will sprout again."- Job 14:7

    FYI: I can date a woman with HIV virus. If you don't have a clean bill of health in regards to STDs/HIV, I consider you an HIV patient. I must see the result of the test taken within the last three months to feel comfortable. Although, a healthy person last week may no longer be healthy today.

    Awusubilahi mena saitani rajim! God forbid bad thing! Prevention is better than cure.
     
  18. Babygal

    Babygal LiViNmAlIfElIkEiTsGoLdEn!

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    Hmmm akiika to all the above... erm tell me... is it just me or is this all a case of stylishly lowering standards.. (Hey I know, I aint perfect either but i come pretty close! :D )
     
  19. Multioption

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    Babygal,

    I don't understand your post. Are you asking if my post was kinda soft on fornication/adultery issue that God frowns at?

    Well, I'm a member of NR where drama is mixed with reality, and mind you, I'm also human and prone to behaving as such, hence my post reflects the worst case scenario.

    How about that?

    Please say your mind.
     
  20. hazozo

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    actualy trhere are some herbalists here that can cure the disease, there have being proof of their cures but their method s are unorthodox
     
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