Babygal, Abstinence preached in the bible is not applicable to sex only, it's applicable to all facet of life. If I consider myself too holy (sanctimonious) to relate/interact with pple in open non-religious forums like NR and others, then I need not join let alone air my views. But if I decide to join a public forum, that means I'm willing to throw into wind some self-held sentiments and relate on the grounds acceptable within the ambit of good morals. I know it's difficult to strike a balance between two extremes and that's where my passion lies. Swinging from one extreme to another without offending God or man is intriguing. Not compromising your 'values' and at the same time accommodating man without offending LOVE is called WISODM. Please say something.