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your pot of soup!

Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by mealone, Jul 23, 2005.

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  1. mealone

    mealone Well-Known Member

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    em.....ok, i wasn't really sure under what forum this should go, but i think it's under family life, so.....

    ladies,(take note,u' re married).... how do you feel if your friend (best friend) walks into your house everytime and she 's always going into your kitchen,opening your soup pot and your fridge, grabbing and munching everything she sees in your house? she even has access to your bedroom and can enter it at any time she pleases, she don't even use the visitors restroom anymore, she's always headed upstairs.
    ........do u feel it's okay, cos she's your best friend and u're soo close or do you feel she's been too forward invading your pot of soup, fridge. e.t.c.

    guys, (as husbands) how will you feel if your wife's friend (as in best friend) is doing that?

    everyborry's opinion counts.
     
  2. Zimmy5

    Zimmy5 Registered

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    Temptation........pull ur ears well well............
     
  3. mealone

    mealone Well-Known Member

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    what do you mean temptation?
     
  4. bluestocking

    bluestocking Well-Known Member

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    Best friend or no best friend, you have to draw the line somewhere.
     
  5. Zimmy5

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    Mealone temptation for the husband.....best friend or not.....having that much freedom could mean ...."catching" the husband in an awkward situation which could be very tempting....and for the wife...it's her call....nobody should be blamed in the long run for her lapses so to say........she's got to draw the line somewhere.........
     
  6. mealone

    mealone Well-Known Member

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    who are you?? and what did you do to zimmy5??? excellent response though.
     
  7. paj

    paj D JENGBORAN OF YORUBALAND

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    well....

    ...if my best friend is a guy..my pot of soup is open and fairplay make E no just begin make some yeye faces when I raid im kitchen the same way... smokin: bedroom's off limits...I no wan make im take style tief all the handcuffs,whips and chains wey me and Ma J dey take do 'miliki'... smokin:

    Pa
     
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    Zimmy5 Registered

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    Mealone....never fear....this is still Zimmy5...........
     
  9. Obariba

    Obariba Koininonia

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    It depends on our friendship did we grow up together from childhood ? Was she close to me when I met and married my husband ? Is my husband comfortable around her ??...some friends are like your blood sister you can trust them with your life.. It depends on the depth of our friendship. Example my best friend married my cousin , we have the relationship described above. Infact when I broke up with my boyfriend several years ago they both comforted me and even carried the matter on their head ...when they were going through financial problems I stuck by their side etc


    So the answer depends on the level of closeness !!!!
     
  10. gogetter

    gogetter Liya kebede...gorgeous

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    i wudnt mind ma girl cooking in ma kitchen, eating, helping her self out..going to ma bedroom...but she cant get too comfy likesleeping in ma bed when ma hussy is around...we cud have girls nite in there when he's gone out but she cant get too comfy...if she starts talking abt and to him the way i do, then something's gatta give...
     
  11. brenda17

    brenda17 Weezy F baby

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    ma best friend can do whatever she likes in ma house,eat whatever she wanna eat.she's not restricted from doing anything in ma house,as far as she's ready to admit doing it if does sumthin' wrong in ma house or destroys anything.i ain't got nothing to hide.ma best friend is kinda closer to me than ma sister.she's a part of me nd i can't lose her cuz of material things or anything.whatever i own is hers too. :spiny:
     
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    grafikdon Well-Known Member

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    Pot of soup is free for all...kitchen...knock yourself out...BEDROOM...I got a jaguar in there and it ain't no car.
     
  13. mamarita

    mamarita OJODTROUBLELOVER

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    Ok I hate people in my kitchen, and well my bedroom is my place of peace, I'd have problems with my husband being there not to talk of my best friend violating the place.... And well my sister is the only one that likes to "to ju bo ile" and she knows me so am sure we would be having dat problem
     
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