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Discussion in 'LOVE, MARRIAGE, THE SEXES' started by eyi-mofe, Nov 19, 2007.

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  1. eyi-mofe

    eyi-mofe Active Member

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    What will be your reaction if your parents just told you that They are not your BIOLOGICAL parents. Will you love them less ? Will you at least like to meet your biological MOTHER ?
     
  2. Hubscrown

    Hubscrown Well-Known Member

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    This kind of reaction depends on the age and the treatment the child has been receiving from the adopted parents. Someway somehow, you will like to know who your biological parents are (if they are still alive and traceable). Also knowing the reason you were adopted.
     
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    Abike Well-Known Member

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    Very well said... grinning:


     
  4. olofofogal

    olofofogal Let d smoke carry d point

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    It depends on how i was treated by them!
     
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    I would be shocked at first but after a while, when I regain my composure, I will ask them why they're not my biological parents, and after the explanation, I will ask them if I can still locate my biological parents. Having said that, I don't think I will love them any less.
     
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    Both post have said it all.grinning:
     
  8. dododudu

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    they cant say it! The resemblance too much! :D
     
  9. Hubscrown

    Hubscrown Well-Known Member

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    What if you were adopted from your uncle or aunt?
     
  10. amet13

    amet13 I dey keep my side

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    good point sis, and i will be grateful to them for at least giving a life
     
  11. toammyb

    toammyb Born to lead and follow

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    Good point but the thing is the parents will constantly wonder if the child hates them or loves them less for that and they'll start treading softly. they might find it difficult to correct the child, especially if it's a young adult...and so on and so forth.
    i resemble my daddy too much to be told i was adopted 4m my uncle besides, i have only one uncle, no aunt n i don't look like him one bit.
     
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