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First love syndrome

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movieaddict

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Most people say their first love is always unforgetable and mostly the best love experience that they've had. Pesonally coming from a woman's perspective, I think unforgetable is right, but BEST is alittle bit questionable. What is your opinion.

Is this syndrome just a woman thing or do men also experience it?
 

Sola

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Originally posted by movieaddict
Most people say their first love is always unforgetable and mostly the best love experience that they've had. Pesonally coming from a woman's perspective, I think unforgetable is right, but BEST is alittle bit questionable. What is your opinion.

Is this syndrome just a woman thing or do men also experience it?
My first love was the dumbest. Didn't know jack. Crushed me. Ha ha. Don't remind me pls. Those people don't know what they're talking about. :mad:
 

Poison

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First love? abeg that's crap is overrated joh. I recall my first BF like yesterday. We fought over mundane things like "you should have asked me if i wanted a peck instead of u pecking me unexpectedly as if you own me' now how silly can two people be?
There was even one fight (yeah we called it fight then) we had that was and is still ridiculously stupid. He gave me a brown teddy bear with black eyes and i had the audacity to ask him why he didn't buy the white and red teddy bear? My whole belief at that time was that white and red symbolized love. Come see his silly sef begging me to...LOL
 

bigmomma

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Originally posted by Poison
First love? abeg that's crap is overrated joh. I recall my first BF like yesterday. We fought over mundane things like "you should have asked me if i wanted a peck instead of u pecking me unexpectedly as if you own me' now how silly can two people be?
There was even one fight (yeah we called it fight then) we had that was and is still ridiculously stupid. He gave me a brown teddy bear with black eyes and i had the audacity to ask him why he didn't buy the white and red teddy bear? My whole belief at that time was that white and red symbolized love. Come see his silly sef begging me to...LOL

girl u dey crase o. white and red u be olumba olumba ab ina guru maharaji?
 

Poison

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Originally posted by bigmomma
girl u dey crase o. white and red u be olumba olumba ab ina guru maharaji?

hehehehehe! I no be guru o! but don't you recall those white body, black eyes and red accessory teddy bears? that wan to me na sign of love back then
 

bigmomma

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Originally posted by Poison
hehehehehe! I no be guru o! but don't you recall those white body, black eyes and red accessory teddy bears? that wan to me na sign of love back then

ahaha bush gal u no happy say im buy you teddy bear sef
 

mamarita

OJODTROUBLELOVER
First love is just stupid, I don't believe in love but from what everyone tells me, you can only love one person at a time, aka, your first love should be your last love, but if thats not the case then thats just gangsta.

That being said. WHAT IS FIRST LOVE?
 

Okestra007

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Originally posted by movieaddict
Most people say their first love is always unforgetable and mostly the best love experience that they've had. Pesonally coming from a woman's perspective, I think unforgetable is right, but BEST is alittle bit questionable. What is your opinion.

Is this syndrome just a woman thing or do men also experience it?
First love, first love. That’s some words am tending to forget. I used “forget” because I tried VERY hard to forget my very first love. You might be wondering why, well let’s just say that the relationship was so great that when it ended I thought that’s my last shot at love.

I met her via a stupid bet, JSS 1 boys! What do we know then, she’s new, and she registered late. So the bet was on, “let’s see who will talk to her first.” Back then, let’s just say am a “girl” so talking to a girl is no problem. During breaks the only games I played were girl’s game (10 10, jumping rope … etc). Yes, I talked to her first and we got hooked. She was my first, we dated for 7 good years, and everything was “soooooo” great. So great that she has to die, ohh by the way I didn’t killed. She died in a car accident months after we graduate from high school.

I believe in love, and I believe in first love. Until recent she had been the very best I have ever had. What we had is unforgettable and that’s why it hurt badly. I tried to forget her by destroying everything we did together (gifts, pictures, clothes ….etc). So, if you never had first love or if yours was bad, well good for you. Am living a new life now, without her but she’s forever be part of me, because 7 years is no joke.
 

blackgold986

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Abeg, everything wey una dey yarn na truth. For me oh, mine was a bitter sweet experience in the fact that the guy na my bestest friend in the whole wide world but one thing finish am, im no dey see anything wey wear skirt, im go wan taste. But I must admit that he can treat a lady as a princess, that sometimes you forget im shortcomings.
So man pikin no get any other choice but to remain his friend and forget the romance
 

movieaddict

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Re: Re: First love syndrome

Originally posted by Okestra007
First love, first love. That’s some words am tending to forget. I used “forget” because I tried VERY hard to forget my very first love. You might be wondering why, well let’s just say that the relationship was so great that when it ended I thought that’s my last shot at love.

I met her via a stupid bet, JSS 1 boys! What do we know then, she’s new, and she registered late. So the bet was on, “let’s see who will talk to her first.” Back then, let’s just say am a “girl” so talking to a girl is no problem. During breaks the only games I played were girl’s game (10 10, jumping rope … etc). Yes, I talked to her first and we got hooked. She was my first, we dated for 7 good years, and everything was “soooooo” great. So great that she has to die, ohh by the way I didn’t killed. She died in a car accident months after we graduate from high school.

I believe in love, and I believe in first love. Until recent she had been the very best I have ever had. What we had is unforgettable and that’s why it hurt badly. I tried to forget her by destroying everything we did together (gifts, pictures, clothes ….etc). So, if you never had first love or if yours was bad, well good for you. Am living a new life now, without her but she’s forever be part of me, because 7 years is no joke.

Oh this is such a sad story. Sorry about her death.
 

Sola

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Re: Re: First love syndrome

Originally posted by Okestra007
I met her via a stupid bet, JSS 1 boys! What do we know then, she’s new, and she registered late. So the bet was on, “let’s see who will talk to her first.” Back then, let’s just say am a “girl” so talking to a girl is no problem. During breaks the only games I played were girl’s game (10 10, jumping rope … etc). Yes, I talked to her first and we got hooked. She was my first, we dated for 7 good years, and everything was “soooooo” great. So great that she has to die, ohh by the way I didn’t killed. She died in a car accident months after we graduate from high school.
Pele o Okestra
 

divalicious

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sorry oh!

dang okestra, i'm sorry bout ur gurlfriend. jus think, she's in a much betta place now. and u..... u can pray to God to take away all the hurt! be strong!
 

movieaddict

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Originally posted by Poison
First love? abeg that's crap is overrated joh. I recall my first BF like yesterday. We fought over mundane things like "you should have asked me if i wanted a peck instead of u pecking me unexpectedly as if you own me' now how silly can two people be?
There was even one fight (yeah we called it fight then) we had that was and is still ridiculously stupid. He gave me a brown teddy bear with black eyes and i had the audacity to ask him why he didn't buy the white and red teddy bear? My whole belief at that time was that white and red symbolized love. Come see his silly sef begging me to...LOL

Gurrrlllllllll you so funnnyyyyyyyyy. LOL.:D. This brings back memories for me also.
 

movieaddict

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But ma people here is anoda twist to this thread o. Is your first love the person you first go out with, or the person you first do the did with (if u know what I mean;) ). The latter is what I hear is hard to forget and that your love for the person will always remain strong because he/she made you a man/woman. Wachy'all think?
 

mamarita

OJODTROUBLELOVER
Originally posted by movieaddict
But ma people here is anoda twist to this thread o. Is your first love the person you first go out with, or the person you first do the did with (if u know what I mean;) ). The latter is what I hear is hard to forget and that your love for the person will always remain strong because he/she made you a man/woman. Wachy'all think?


Not really as per the first person you do it with, as per now that being a virgin almost seen as a disease and everyone is rushing out to loose it to the next SOB ready to stick his key in a willing keyhole.
But the first person you go out with, well, people tend to remember, I remember my first boyfriend, I remember his name and how we used to hold hands and play "aeroplane" on the school field, then the idiot had to break his hand and have everyone wanting to be friends with him. I even remember his name sef!!!!! I wonder if I'll ever see him again and if he'll ever rememeber my name:rolleyes:



What I think people never forget is their first kiss especially if it was under the table on your first day in nursery 3:D
 

jenzi

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Originally posted by mamarita
Not really as per the first person you do it with, as per now that being a virgin almost seen as a disease and everyone is rushing out to loose it to the next SOB ready to stick his key in a willing keyhole.
But the first person you go out with, well, people tend to remember, I remember my first boyfriend, I remember his name and how we used to hold hands and play "aeroplane" on the school field, then the idiot had to break his hand and have everyone wanting to be friends with him. I even remember his name sef!!!!! I wonder if I'll ever see him again and if he'll ever rememeber my name:rolleyes:



What I think people never forget is their first kiss especially if it was under the table on your first day in nursery 3:D

See am OPIO like yourself.:D :D :D
 

bigmomma

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ah mamarita kissing in nursery 3 u don spoil finish o.



Ha first love chei i wonder if that boy dey for yankee now o cos im mama bin dey hia {bigmomma runs to switchboard.com}
 
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