Yes if the truth is told, Even in our parents parent days, when those habit was the norm. It was never rosy in those houses. Who wants to share such intimate experience with mates. There is no woman I mean no sane woman wants to share their man.REMEMBER SARAH AND HAGGAI. tHAT WAS THE BEGINING OF CRISIS IN PARADISE.So it is safe to say Almaroof was/is not married to another woman(women) then? I mean since you said no woman or man is ever happy sharing their soulmates with others.
Also, are you saying all wives in polygamous family in Nigera are sad?