Nne, you maybe seriously in need of some malaria tablets o!
WHY? FOR SAYING THE TRUTH?!!! YOU!!!!!??? Who was berating a niece for not sleeping with her uncle's friend for a job dare to tell em say I need panadol abi na chloroquine for saying our women here are lying through their teeth??? Nna, mind yoursef O! Tell me, if you know any babe wey one bobo came on loving like the original Prince charming, and you KNOW SAY the man love her to die! the man even dey cry to you to help you beg the babe to say yes! Hin even give you a Ferrari just to beg the chick to say YEs to his marriage proposal.......Rudie, talk true O! You go tell Single chick [that has been searching for the elusive Mr. Right for decades] to say No, and become Wife # Mighty 1 to one dude who may cheat on her, and not even love her genuinely???? smh
I am sick and tired of women PRETENDING! Why do women say no to things like these so casually? The question is NOT if you would say yes to a rich old man as second wife! Neither is the question about becoming a second wife to a randy young man who has money to spoil you [at the expense of love].
The question in my post is: WHAT IF THE MAN IS HEAD OVER HEELS IN LOVE WITH THE WOMAN! AND FOR CERTAIN REASONS, CANNOT DIVORCE HIS FIRST WIFE,
{she maybe terminally ill, or they may have had one of those family/merger/business marriage with no love}. AND HE CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT THIS SINGLE GIRL. AND HE JUST HAPPENS TO HAVE TOO MUCH MONEY [WHICH MEANS THE SECOND WIFE WOULD NOT HAVE TO HASSLE ANY ISH WITH WIFE #1].
i AM NOT saying that being a second wife is a glorious thing either. Just that this is one of those questions I DON'T expect women to say 'HECK NO' just like that. Without thinking it through! This is one of those questions that a honest woman would say 'NO, {with explanation}!
Some people have deliberately decided to look at my question as if I am asking if they would marry a rich man who would give them material things as second wife! THAT IS NOT WHAT I AM SAYING! I am talking about a man that would give you GENUINE LOVE+RICHES+COMPANIONSHIP+ALL your heart's desires! Yes, in Wife #2 status! NOT living in the same house as wife #1! In fact, living in different continents!
Because at the end of the day, every human being is pursuing happiness! And if the happiness comes with title of Wife #2, would you say NO and live/marry another man you do not honestly and truly love?? Just because you want to be Wife #1???
Pardon me if i refuse to believe that any sane woman would genuinely love a man {the type of love that starts from the bottom of the hearts and tingles the spine and jitters the nerve endings, the type of love that the sight of the man would make their heart skips 5 beats a second}....and with the extra bonus of the man being mega rich [to cater to all their high-heels cravings, their shopping needs, their need for luxurious lifestyle, their avenue to help even the old woman in their village by opening something like an Elder's Day Care etc]...would still say a casual NO to becoming a second wife! Mba! i am NOT buying it!
EVERY woman's dream is to be loved, and loved genuinely! And if Mr. Right comes on a shiny private jet, YES, some of the women saying no here would say YES before he even finishes asking the question! And they shall keep uploading the pictures of their lunch on a gondola in the morning, and sunbathing in Barbados in the afternoon, and dinner and a movie premiere in Los Angeles!

That is the one NO a woman would say after fasting and prayer! After lots of confusion of 'Should I?!" Shouldn't I?!" sessions! THIS IS NOT ONE OF THOSE EASY "NO" questions! Especially with love involved! And the woman knowing that this is the ONLY man that has made her genuinely happy!
You know the funny thing? While people are saying NO here, there are SO MANY WOMEN HERE IN USA WHO ARE IN FACT WIFE #2!! WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING! BECAUSE THEIR CUTE, NICE HUSBANDS HERE ALREADY MARRIED IN NIGERIA OR OTHER AFRICAN COUNTRIES AND NEVER HAD A REAL DIVORCE! SO, THEY ARE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED TO ANOTHER WOMAN! Remember Mercy Johnson/Lovelyn saga? YES! That is a reality! There are men that carried traditional drinks on women back home, and by traditional rites, the woman is their wife!
how many high flying ladies here are actually second wives? How many times have we seen 'the other woman' turn up at the funeral of dead men as 'The first wife' with grown up kids? smh. abeg, make una no make me laugh! A cheating man is NOT better than a polygamous man!